Ben Nadel
On User Experience (UX) Design, JavaScript, ColdFusion, Node.js, Life, and Love.
I am the chief technical officer at InVision App, Inc - a prototyping and collaboration platform for designers, built by designers. I also rock out in JavaScript and ColdFusion 24x7.
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LH

Member since Jun 14, 2010

Recent Blog Comments By LH

  • The Desire To Change Those We Care About

    Posted on Jun 14, 2010 at 12:33 PM

    @Steve, To be fair, that quote has been around for years, so it would be safe to use it w/out attribution to that person :)... read more »

  • The Desire To Change Those We Care About

    Posted on Jun 14, 2010 at 11:31 AM

    @Ben, Sure; there are friends who test our boundaries. Sometimes it's a matter of intent though; do they feel like they're doing it to make us better people (because they care about us), or for their own selfish reasons (i.e., is their motive good or bad?). It's not a bad thing to have friends tha... read more »

  • The Desire To Change Those We Care About

    Posted on Jun 14, 2010 at 10:57 AM

    I think you're mixing ideas here, Ben. Those people that are asking you to do things you're uncomfortable with are the people who do not care about you. And part of acceptance is accepting that they are going to drink, smoke, and do other things that you do not, but each of you has the choice to acc... read more »