Ben Nadel
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I am the chief technical officer at InVision App, Inc - a prototyping and collaboration platform for designers, built by designers. I also rock out in JavaScript and ColdFusion 24x7.
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Kinky Solutions Valentine's Day Give Away

By Ben Nadel on

I Thought Valentine's day would be a sweet excuse to give something away since I haven't done much of that in a while. And so, introducing the first ever annual Kinky Solutions Valentine's Day Give Away:


 
 
 

 
Cute Couple Kissing - Kinky Solutions Valentine's Day Give Away  
 
 
 

The rules are simple. In the comments section below, post a comment that has the following information:

  1. Name and something nice about your significant other (ex. John/Jane has the most beautiful smile I have ever seen).
  2. How long you two have been together.

On Friday, February 8, a winner will be randomly selected from the comment entries below. The winning couple will get a $100 gift certificate from Amazon.com (or an online establishment of your choice). I am ending the give away on Friday, rather than next week on Valentine's day so that you will hopefully be able to put that gift certificate to good use with enough time before the actual day.




Reader Comments

Ok so I'm recently divorced but i can say my ex wife C. taught me a ton about myself and made me a much better person. Also the other women in my life (my cat noki) is the perfect companion :)

My beautiful Wife Erin, who has bore my Three Future Coldfusion programmers, put up with my insane work schedule (The servers always go down in the evening), and kindly consented to join me on our first weekend away (from the kids) in 7 years, to Niagara Falls (she has no clue where we are going yet) the weekend of her birthday Feb 9-10.

my husband (i know this is odd) has a handsome jaw line. it is very strong and masculine, kind of brad pitt-esque. we've been together two crazy years and have twin girls.

My dear husband and I have been married 9 years as for last week! This would be a great anniversary gift but my favorite thing about him is he is a loving, serving, caring, Godly husband. Who could ask for more! Thanks...

My wife Ginger Truitt who gave me the best little boy in the world (Ethan Nicholas Truitt) and who has put up with the crazy hours of a programmer. She has even made late night runs for coke and pizza while I was working late programming....that's true love.

Chris is the best daddy I could dream/wish/hope for to our 2 year old daughter. We've been married for almost 7 years and he still makes my heart jump!

My girl has been my significant other for more than 50% of my life. She has hair that most women dream of, a laugh that encourages me to no end, and a body that still inspires lusty desires. We've been partners for 23 years. She's given me confidence and organization to my geeky sloppiness. She's also created two of the most beautiful children you've ever seen.

Craig is the most patient, loving and giving man I have ever known in my life. hands down. I thank God every day that he is my partner in this life. We will be celebrating our 6th wedding anniversary this May, and we are still crazy in love. :)
Great giveaway!

My girlfriend L is very intelligent, dedicated and driven (even if she is slightly obsessive). It's been an interesting year and a half living with her and her two boys. "Instant family just add Todd" as we always joke. I want to thank her for pushing me to take care of myself better and deal with the world a little more instead of being a cynical curmudgeon hermit that I had aspirations of being.

Justin is a great dad. He works hard for our family and and yet, always makes time for us. We have been married for 5 yrs.

My husband and I have been together nine years. He still brings me flowers and makes sure to make the coffee in the morning!

My husband works twice as hard so that I can stay home with our baby...this is one of the best gifts he could ever give our family. We have been together for 8 years. Thanks!

My wife and I have been married for 9 years. During that time, we had five kids. The first four are girls and the last is my boy. Boy do we make beautiful kids together! It's amazing that she remembers everybody's birthdays.

DJ

My wifes eyes are the most beautiful I have ever seen and her smile can light up a room and make me happy every single time I see it. We were highschool sweethearts and have been married 138 months as of yesterday. And yes, I used coldfusion to figure that out. <cfset monthsnum = DateDiff('m',NOW(),"8/4/1996")> <cfdump var="#monthsnum#">

My husband John is one of the best fathers out there. I am a stay at home mom and he completely supports me in everything I do. He is just Mr. Wonderful and I love him so much!

My wife listens to all my geek speak, and despite calling me a dork most of the time, still supports me in all my efforts (oh and she is hot!).

Together 9 years, married 1.5

My wife, Katrina, is the most compassionate, loving woman I have ever met. She is my perfect, beautiful soulmate and is the best mother one could want for our two year old and our new baby due in April.

my husband jack has a wonderful personality. we have been together. we have been together for 6 years and married for 3 1/2.
this would help us out alot, we aren't getting each other anything this year. we just had our third child and money is tight.

My husband has these huge hands but he uses them so gently, and that tells me so much about the passion and tenderness he balances inside. I love it! We've been married for 13 months and dated for 12 1/2 before that, we we've been together 2 years and almost 2 months now!

My husband is so thoughtful and always makes me feeling like I am the best wife ever (which I am not). He is really amazing. We've been married 6 years now and it just keeps getting better!

My husband has such a positive attitude toward everything. It's such a joy to be around him! He really brightens my days. We've been together for about four years now.

my husband CJ has amazing hands. they swing our 2 year old high in the air and get giggles out of him, they help our 3 year old learn to draw her shapes, and they cradle our 3 month old gently to sleep. we've been together since college, and married for 5 years now.

Dave is incredibly thoughtful. He thinks well ahead in order to truly surprise me with gifts, day trips, and just the right thing to say to make me feel truly loved and special. We have been together for six years and became married one year ago.

My husband tends to be bigger than me but he has this perfect little spot in his chest when we hug that I fit right in. We have been together for 14-1/2 years and married for 12.

I love how my husband does "little" things for me ..those usually means more to be than the big things..

We're high school senior sweethearts.. 10 years together at the end of the month! : )

Scot knows how much I hate cleaning bathrooms, so a couple of years ago he took it on as one of his chores around the house. I'm so lucky! We've been married for just over four years.

My sweetie gets up, without complaining, when we're watching movies in bed, to traipse downstairs and get me a glass of water. Or a cookie. Or a fresh pencil and a puzzle book. Or the phone. He's too sweet! We've been married 9 years.

My husband David is so patient and kind. He never EVER resorts to pettiness or bringing up things already past when we argue. He is just a good man.

Been married almost 10 years-met in an internet chatroom and I went overseas to meet him!

My husband Scott makes me feel beautiful even after losing my figure to pregnancy. I am working hard (most days) to get back to something like I was before I had our precious daughter and he tells me all the time I am doing a great job but also reminds me in the same breath that no matter what I look like he still thinks I am the sexiest thing on earth and he will always love me. We have been together for a total of 17 years and married for 12 of those.

Kevin and I have been married for 5 years, and the sweetest thing he's ever done is stick up for me when my mom complained about my cooking. I'm no great shakes in the kitchen, everyone knows it, but he still told my mom that he loved my cooking.

My husband Jonathan gave me the gift of enjoying life more. He is also the most devoted father to our little 1-year-old girl - seeing him be a father is seeing him become who he was always supposed to be. We've been together 7 years now.

My husband stayed up late with me to rub my head when I had a migraine the other nite...it is the little things, you know? We have been together for 9 years.

Jonathan is definately the man of my dreams. I love the way his arms feel wrapped around me. We've been together almost 7 years.

My wife's name is Amanda, and she has the wonderful trait of always thinking of others and being thoughtful to their needs. We have been married almost 6 years!

Chris Peterson

My amazing husband of 7 years, Gil, is driving an hour and a half each way to work so that we can stay in our house until it sells and still all be together. We were renting a house where will be moving, but it wasn't very nice, so he is making this huge sacrifice for the three of us (including our 18 month old Ben).

My husband, Ken, of almost 8 years, has the most beautiful hands. He could be a "hands model!" He is also a wonderful husband and father. Thanks for the contest! ( meg.wilson@gmail.com )

My Hubby is the kindest, sweetest, most loving father and husband that any woman could ask for! (Just don't tell him, because he thinks he's a real "tough guy"! ;-)
We've been together 8 years, married for 6 1/2 years and have 2 gorgeous sons!

Jay, my husband, and I have been together for 14 years. He is the most wonderful father to our children and completes me perfectly.

We have been married 7.5 years. Something wonderful about my husband is that he gets up with our son every morning. This allows me to sleep until the baby wakes up (an hour later). Bless that sweet man!

Brian, my husband is a wonderful and supportive husband, and I'm thankful to have been with him for the last 9 years!

My wife is a smart, wonderful wife, and a terrific mother to our 4 children and 2 grandchildren. She's also great at helping me with the Sunday crossword puzzles. She's been super for the 42 years (well, most of the 42 years) we've been together. And...today's her birthday!!

There are so many nice things that I could say about my husband. He is a wonderful father and husband, thats a "duh". The best thing about our life together is the laughter. He is so funny and can make me laugh even as sad tears stream down my face. :) We have been together since I was 15, and married since I was 19. So "together" for 10 years. Married for 5 and a half! :)

Hi, Thanks for the wonderful opportunity to gloat about my husband. Jon is seven years younger than me, but he is the one who acts older. I am the impulsive one! As my older sister says, "Any other man would have left you by now!" I deserve those sentiments. I had a sever money problem. We have had to borrow from his and my parents to pay off credit cards that I ran up! Now, he is still paying off whatever number loan from his job. Well, it came to the point where it was my family or my addiction. I choose my wonderful husband and family! Debtor's Anonymous has helped tremendously and no access to credit cards. Jon and I will celebrate 22 years of marriage in May! I would love to gift him this Amazon.com certificate so he could purchase something just for himself. Thanks,Cindi

Sue, my wife of 10 years, is an excellent mother to our two boys. She is beautiful, smart, a great cook, and a great entrepreneur. I can't imagine being without her.

My wife Dyany and I have been together for 10 years. She is very fun, because she's kinda geeky like me. I hope we'll be together for may years to come. :)

My husband, Larry, is incredibly giving. He always makes sure I have time for myself on the weekends...something that keeps me sane! We've been together for 7.5 years and married for 4.5.

My wife Tori who is kind, compassionate,and beautiful is not working right now to take care of our eight month old baby Zachary. We have been together for two and a half years and I would not trade those years for all the ColdFusion 8 Enterprise licenses that Adobe could muster.

Hey Ben,

My girl Katya is swell because she loves ColdFusion, knows the difference between Java and JavaScript, validates her XHTML to W3C standards, strictly scopes all her variables, and writes reusable modular code.

Well, in my dreams she does.

But I looked past those shortcomings and instead we founded our relationship on the most important criteria known to man - fleeting physical attraction, her tolerance of my excessive body hair, and a mutual love of Seinfeld.

Also, she's pretty cool, like I guess.

My husband Sam is the sweetest husband. Whenever I am having a bad day or something, he always does the silliest things just to make me smile. We have been married 12 years this month, and I cann't remember what life was like without him :)

My husband Marvin has the most luxurious head of hair. I love to run my fingers through it all the time....during movies, during sex, during car rides. We've been together for 14 years and I still find him as sexy now as I did when we first met.

My wife Amy is the hardest worker I know, she will not rest until everything is done. At work, they have to drag her away from her desk so she can take a break. We've been married for almost 3 years and we met on Valentine's day 4 years ago.

My hubs is a wonderful caretaker - of our land, our wildlife, our animals and me. He's a jack-of-all-trades. Best of all, he loves me :)

My hubby and I have been together for 11 years and married for nearly 10 years. I love my husband because as cliche as it sounds, the years only get better and better as we grow older and change with each other.

My husband Kevin is kind and gentle, but underneath runs a strength of character that is unmatched in anyone else I've ever met. He's everything I've ever dreamed of and I feel so lucky to be married to him! We've been together for almost nine years.

My husband and I've been married almost 5 years and have been together for 13!

I love his kindness and fairness to all, his love for our baby girl and his love for me. Thanks for a great contest!

Mike and I have known each other for 16 years, been together for 9, married for 5. How do I pick one thing about him that I love? Well, I love that he listens to me when I tell him not to buy me presents since we don't have extra money (we've got two young kids!). He feels guilty, but he still listens. Now with $100 gift certificate he wouldn't have to feel guilty anymore...

My wife, Megan, puts up with my computer time although she's not large on computers herself! She's an endless source of patience and love. We've been together 7 years now.

My husband, Paul, is the most wonderful daddy! I love watching him with our daughter. He is loving and attentive. It's so amazing to me in part because I didn't have a father like that, myself. I am so blessed to have married such a wonderful man!
We have been married for 3 1/2 years, but together for a total of 6 1/2 years. We have a 14 month old daughter named Anna.

I love my husband for his honesty and trustworthiness. We have been married just over ten years. We met on a blind date twelve years ago.

Tyler is pretty much the best ever. He makes me happy when skies are blue, black and gray and he makes the world's best fajitas.

We have been together for 3 years.

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My husband has the best laugh, especially when he is laughing with our girls. We have been together over 11 years.

Those times when I realize how lucky I am to be with Emily I can hardly breath. We've been together for 5 1/2 years, married for 3 1/2.

I have been married to my husband, Scott, for 9.5 years and he still can make me laugh like no one else can.

I love the way my husband sings. The first Christmas after we began dating, a little over 7 years ago, he wrote me a song. I melted then and still melt every time I hear his voice. The lyrics hang in our bedroom.

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My husband and I started dating on valentines day 26 years ago, My first husbands left me with an infant. Tom and I have been married for 23 years and he has been a wonderful father to our 2 children.

I am in 34 week spregnant and was just hospitalized. Durign that time he took care of our five year old twins, came to see me every day and always left notes for me around my room.

We have been together for 11 years and have been married for 7.

My husband Jeremiah and I will have been together for 9 years on President's day. I love that he's so patient with both me and our daughter and that he's always got some new idea cooking in his head.

My husband, Jake, and I have been together for about 7 years now and 2 years ago he gave up his teaching job to become an officer in the Army. I'm proud of him for following his dream and for giving being willing to defend and protect our freedoms.

I'm single, but my last girlfriend had one of the most memorable voices I've ever heard. she just had a very unique voice.

We were together for a month.

Da hubby and I have been married for 7 years. I love his ability to let me be myself and I love his passion and honesty. The man is a stud people!

My husband is just all-around wonderful: he almost always does the dishes--without complaining!--he probably does more housework than I do (sometimes just taking care of 4 kids 4 and under is as much as I can handle...), he loves my cooking, he's generous... I really got lucky. And he loves books as much as I do, so Amazon'd be great. : )

My husband and I have been together for 9 years and married for 4.5. There's plenty I like about him but above all it's his enthusiasm. He's like a kid in a candy store every day. I think it's the best thing, hands down, that I hope he'll pass on to our kids. ...And he's tall, dark, and handsome, can I add that?

My boyfriend is the greatest man for me, he is honest and caring and believes in Jesus and the Lord. We have been together over 3 and a half years, and recently I became his fiance!

My husband gives me lots of compliments about how I look, even though both of us are laid back, not too concerned with appearances people. I have been married for 2 1/2 years, and we were together for a year before that.

My husband of almost four years is the most generous person I have ever met
ce613 at hotmail dot com

My husband is such a thoughtful and generous person. He is always willing to help anyone who expresses a need and is extremely philanthropic. I am so thankful to have him in my life. Every day with him is better than the day before.

It seems like Jim can always make me laugh, even when I'm having a really bad day. We've been together for 4 months.

The best thing about Ed is his unconditional love for me, accepting me for my flaws and faults, riding through the good and bad times, providing support and constant love. We've been together for 3 years, 3 months.

Spencer's eyes get me every time.

We've been together for almost a year and we're getting married in May!

Every day I fall in love with my wife all over again and I am so grateful that she was able to bless me with a beautiful daughter. I don't know what I would do with out her. We met in 2002 and were married in May 2005 and we have been inseparable since.

The only other I have in my life right now was Fish. Sadly, He died last week. We had been pals for 7yrs. It was so fun to sit and watch the way he organized the rocks in the bottom of the tank.

My partner of 6 months now makes me glad to be alive and puts the glow on my face everyday. I'm so happy we are together now after hiding it for so long.

My husband will drop whatever he is doing to make me a foot bath and bring me hot cocoa (or something stronger) after a long day of teaching. While this is our 3rd year of marriage, we're coming up on our 10th year of being together - can't believe it's been that long already.

please enter me!
My husband and I have been together for 6 years married 5 we have two beautiful children and I love that he is such a hard worker and would bend over backwards for his family. Nothing sexier than a man in love with his family!
tonyamcrain@aol.com

My signifigant other and I have been together for two years and he is wonderful because he accepts me and loves me just the way that I am. Who could ask for more?

my husband dean is the funniest person i know. there is nothing better than laughing together until my side hurts. we have been together 11 years.

My husband, Bruce, has such a wonderful soul. He makes everyone feel comfortable, at ease, and good about themselves. We will be together for one decade in just a few weeks.

J can be so wonderfully gentle at times. Just when I'm having the worst day he'll come rub my feet or my shoulders, just some little gesture to let me know he cares even when the world doesn't.

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and he has such wonderful warm skin! I love cuddling up at night!!

Hmmm...my husband is a HARD worker - that's for sure! He's got a full time job, goes to school part time and plus is a great daddy and hubby! I love him! :) And we've been together 5 1/2 years.

Only one nice thing? I could write a novel about how wonderful my husband is, but the best thing of all is that he makes me happy to be me. And we have two young boys and he's the best father to them, which makes him a wonderful husband too (for starters, he always changes the diapers, he potty-trained our oldest pretty much without any help from me, and he does the bedtime routine too). Okay, so that was more than one thing, I just can't help myself!

We've been together for almost nine years and it's been more magical than I ever could have imagined. (Sorry this is so sappy, but I can't help it! Since I try not to brag about what a great husband I have, I can't stop the flow when someone actually asks!)

My husband and I have been together since 3/16/97 and married since 10/12/02 and I have loved every minute. Mike is a wonderful man, an amazing father and my best friend!

My husband is the most patient and selfless man I know! We have been together for 12 years now. (Wow! Can't believe it has already been that long!)

Jen has been a wonder wife of mine for the last ten years. Her patience towards my sometimes unreasonable behavior is so amazing and is something I will always treasure!

Jen has been the most wonderful wife of mine for the last ten years. Her patience towards my sometimes unreasonable beahavior is something I will always treasure!

My husband Craig is the greatest, he always makes me feel safe. We've been married for almost 3 years and we've known each other for 4 1/2 years.

My wife is very loving, patient, and supporting. She also works very hard at home taking care of our two children and I. We have known each other 4.5 years and been married for 2.5 years. It is wonderful! God has make our marriage what he desires marriage to be!

My husband is so amazingly patient with me and so thoughtful. After much stress and heartache, we finally brought our perfect baby girl home on our 6th anniversary 6 weeks ago. The first week of her life- I never changed a diaper- Daddy did it.

What I most admire about my wife Tracey is how powerful of a woman she is, and how beautiful and confident of a dancer she is.

On Friday, February 8th my wife and I will have been a couple for 4,186 days, and will have been married for 3,637 days. Which means in 16 days it will be out tenth wedding anniversary.

See? OCD has its advantages, if only one knows how to apply them. ;-)

My husband's birthday is in a few weeks, and as a gift he's taking us both to a spa for 2 nights! A spa! Where not only do your own children stay home, so do everyone else's too!

And, he sold his car years ago so that he could bike commute. He's in amazing shape, better at 41 than he was at 25.

My husband Brian and I have been married for 5 years and together for 9. My husband has a trait about him that he can make anyone feel at ease and good about themselves. He is also a great dad!

My husband Art and I have been married for just about 3 years now. The nicest thing I can say about him is that he is truly a wondefful father to our almost one-year-old. He has risen above and beyond and it's an amazing thing.

Bill and I have been married for 37 years and he has always been a repair man for any of our home repairs that needed immediate attention. We've saved a lot of money for his ability to try and do things himself!!

my husband chris and i have been together for 10 years...married for 3 1/2. he can always make me laugh and more importantly knows when he shouldn't try!

My husband is funny, smart, creative, and he keeps us on track spiritually. We've been together for 2 years.

My wonderful husband Kevin is a great dad to 6 year-old Kiersten and dutifully tackles the early morning feedings and atleast one all night feeding once a week for our newborn (Madison, 2 months, Feb 12th). He also takes her to daycare, does some lite housework and makes it a point to make me feel beautiful. We have been together for 4 years.

My husband and I have been together for 12 years (married for 5). He is a wonderful husband, fun, and loving. But the best thing has been watching him become a dad. It's a whole side to him that I never would have imagined and it makes me fall in love wiht him all over again!

My husband is very loving and generous. He is always willing to help those in need. He would give someone the shirt off his back if they needed it.
We have been married 4 1/2 years.

My husband and I have been married for 3.5 years now, but have been together for 16 years now. We are high school sweethearts and I wouldn't have it any other way. I couldn't have picked a better husband or father for my children! He really is the best!

Richard is such a dedicated husband and daddy - always doing whatever is necessary and best for our family! I feel blessed to have been with him for 5 1/2 years!

My husband is SO into our children. When he's home from work, they are glued to him and it's so great to see.

We have been together since I was 16. (I will be 30 this year). We have been married for 10 years in July.

Thanks for the giveaway. I would love to win a gift card!

My husband of ten years has the most wonderful and quirky sense of humor and constantly keeps the spirits high in our home even when things are looking bleak.

My hubby Kevin is a hard worker, great dad and is especially caring and loving. We just celebrated 11 wonderful years of marriage.

My husband and I have been married for 7 years. He's almost always willing to play games with me, even though I usually beat him. He's so good with our 2 girls! He comes home for work and within 10 minutes of walking through the door, he's taken them off of my hands and plays with them.

My husband of 6.5 years is a wonderful man. He cooks dinner for us every night and is beyond loving to our family. I am lucky to have him in my life.

My husband has the most beautiful eyelashes. So much so that I am jealous of them! We've been together for 5 years. Married for 3 years.

i have been with my hubby for almost 5 years and i love his eyes and when he laughs.romance is always nice when you have a two year old hehe.

Ken (my husband of 5 years) has amazed me. He has worked so hard for the last 2 years to finish his degree and make a better life for himself and our daughter. He comes from a family that does not value education and has overcome that stigma in order to show his baby girl how important hard work is.

My dh and have been married 15 years. Besides being the most handsome man in the world, he allows me to be a stay at home wife, truly priceless!

Greg (aka "Papa") and I have been married 20 years this May.

Everyday, and he has never missed one....he tells me how beautiful I am, that he loves me more then anything in the world and he always, always, kisses me goodbye. He has being doing this for 20 years and still does it.

My hubby always lets me cuddle with him in bed even when I'm what he calls his "wifecicle" Even my icy cold feet!
We have been together 3 years and 4 months, married for 2 1/2 years with a 10 month old precocious baby boy!

My wonderful husband Tony has always been loyal to me, and that means the world! We have been married for 15 1/2 years.

Let me try again.

My wonderful husband is always willing to help me with our boys and the house and he has the most beautiful blue eyes. We have been married 9 short years.

Life brings us the ups and downs sometimes. Dan and I have been together for 22 years, married for 19.....2 beautiful, loving children and a great dog!
We meet on the railroad...talked about basketball, photography and continue our dialogues today about almost anything. Dan is the most giving person I know. He is changing the world for the better each day and I love him for that. I wish the world had more of my Dan in it.
Thanks for the journey thus far honey....I love you.

Pete's got a lot of good things going for him...I'd say the fact he cooks dinner every night is the thing I appreciated most. Also, the fact he is able to maintain some humor about living with all females (we have 3 young daughters). We have been together almost 13 years.

My husband Ben and I have been together for 3 years and known eachother for 19 years. Ben is a loving husband & father, he always knows how to make me laugh, has a strong work-ethic, and cooks so many wonderful things!

My hubby, Mike, is the most forgiving person I know. And it's a good thing, because sometimes I do absolutely stupid things! And yet he never holds that against me. We've been married for 16+ years! Wow!

My name is Maggie and my husband Jason surprises me daily with the gentleman that he is becoming. We are expecting our first child in a few weeks and he is growing before my very eyes. We have been together for over 6 years and married only 6 months!

My husband is dedicated, resourceful and loving. He is a wonderful father and is more sensitive to our children's pain than I am! We will celebrate our fourteenth anniversary this year and we have been together sixteen years. We met and began dating when I was 16 and he was 18!

My husband for 8 years is my soul mate. I knew it when I met him, and have grown with him, in the different stages of life we have gone thru: moving, kids, career changes, life, etc.

My wife an I have been together for 7 years and have been in eachother's company all but 27 days of that time. She has an awesome bum. :)

My husband and I have been married for almost 9 years. The best thing about him is his ability to believe the best about people and to accept people as they are... including me!

Okay, my wife forwarded a link to my work. I would say that means she wants me to enter us.

I have a one-of-a kind gal. She is an amazing woman! We met when I was just 15 and were married when I was 21. This summer will bring our 10th anniversary. She has birthed us 3 boys (5, almost 2, and 9 weeks.) She is an accountant, but has given up working for now to raise (and homeschool) our children. She is my best friend, my partner and my lover. I consider myself exceptionally lucky to have her!

My husband Donnie is so amazing. He goes to work every day at a job he is great at, but he absolutely hates. Why? Because he makes good money and has great benefits for his family. He hates it, but he goes 6 days a week and does his job WELL just for us. I respect him so much for it.
We have been married for almost 19 years and have 7 great kids together.

My Johnny Boy is the most supportive, thoughtful husband ever. He always supports me in everything I do and has my back when things get tough. He always wants to be part of my activities and shares his activities with me. When things are rough for him I am the only person he turns to for comfort and assistance. He is not just my husband he is my best friend ever.

My husband and I have been married for 3 years. We knew each other, well had talked to each other for 4 months before we married.

Rick has the greatest sense of humor and keeps me laughing much of the time. His favorite saying is "It'll be alright". That is the way he faces life and whey things happen he will say his saying and then find someway to make me smile.

I love him!

Mike and I meet on Valentines day at work 16 years ago this year. He has the most soothing voice I have ever heard. Many times he has cured a headach for me by just talking. Not to mention he is my best friend

My husband is the most fun person to talk to. He is a great listener and communicator. We have a great relationship...and we have a lot in common. He is a great dad, and I love that he cares. He puts family first.
We met online through chatting...and we have been together for 4+ years. We have 3 kids. :)

My wife is the most patient and selfless mother/wife/person I've ever seen. She truly denies herself and lives for the betterment of our family....and she gives wicked anal.

my wonderful husband Tony, thanks for the 29 years wedded bliss - he also make my birthday which falls on Valentine day 14/2/08 so special - this year I'm 50, so know there'll be some surprise. Thanks for all the cuddles and support to me and our 2 sons on the sad loss of Shadow our family dog for 12 1/2 years - you're simply the best darling. Love you millions xx

My husband is a wonderful man. He is hard working, sweet, handsome and everything that I could want in a man. He is also a great father to our 2 babies. We have been together for a little over 3 years and married for 2.25 years :)

My husband and I have been together for almost 7 years.

I love him for so many wonderful things. He's a great daddy, husband and lover, but most of all he is my best friend/soul mate!

He did all the dishes two days ago. lol. No I love how he plays with our son :) We've been married almost 5 years and dates for a year and a half before that.

My husband and I have been together almost 8 years. I love how he respects my job as a stay at home mom and gives me time to myself to regroup. He is very generous with his time - something I prob need some help in.

My husband knows just what to say to make me laugh! We have been married for four years, together for eight.

My Wife of less than a year, Kate, is so freaking gorgeous that it sometimes pains me to look at her with full restraint.

My husband and I have been married for 6 years! He is a very hard worker and has done really well to support our little family. I love him so much for that!

My sweet boy is amazing! He's going back to school (a return student) full time AND works full time in order to help with the bills. He's away from the house all day and on many weekends and still is completely sweet and romantic when ever he's around me. That's more than I can say for some people I've known.

We've been together for 3.5 years.

My husband, Chris and I have been married for ten years. I like the fact that he talks a lot, there is never a dull moment in our house!

My husband Burkely is the sweetest, most supportive man in the whole wide world. He is a more-than-full-time Grad Student and still finds time to play with our son and be sweet and romantic with me. We have been together for six years.

The most significant thing about my s.o. is that I love not having one. I've been single all of my life, have the most wonderful dd, and am very content with my life choices.

My boyfriend Bruce's only fault is that he is named Bruce. We have been together for 6 1/2 years, living together for almost 5. His kids live in Canada and he stays with them in Canada about 1/4 of every month, plus some extra during the summer; he's such a great dad! He is smart and funny and silly and sweet and adorable, and even though he is an open source zealot, he doesn't give me a hard time about liking ColdFusion! That's because he respects my opinion. He's a keeper.

Larry is a tender and loving husband. We've been married 12 years and I look forward to another 50.

Well Mike and I have been together 5 years. He is easy on the eyes (he has the greatest butt I have ever seen on a guy) and he is even easier on the soul. He is very quiet and calm, reserved, and gentle. I have a latin temper and he is very grounding for me. I guess I feel that we have a great balance between us. But, I think the very best thing about him is what an amazing father he is. My son looks just like him, except much smaller, and I jokingly call him 'the clone'. It is great to see them together.
Thanks for the great giveaway...I like that you are giving it in time for it to be used for a nice Valentine's gift.

My girl Rachel who I love to lie around and talk to in the wee hours of the morning, even though she has the worst morning breath ever, that's when I love her most. We've been together for about a year.

My new hubby and I have been married just a few months since November 2007! He is the most kind-hearted, generous man I have ever known. We are both teachers and met at the school where we both started working. I wasn't looking for a man date or marry, but he captured my heart with his goodness. Not only do I call him, "Sweetie"--he is a sweetie! ;-)

Shannon...we've been together for a little over five years. Even though he is unable to do a lot of things (disabling back injury), we get things done together and that's all that matters.

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Thanks to the random ordering power of SQL Server 2005, I am pleased to announce the winner of the First Annual Kinky Solutions Valentine's Day Give Away is:

I've been with my husband five years now. I love how everything is more fun to experience when he is around.

Posted by Bethany on Feb 5, 2008 at 11:32 AM

Congratulations to Bethany!

Seriously, I think this is the first thing I have ever won! I'm very excited and so thankful for the gift. Now off to get some V-day presents. Many thanks!

Bethany

My fiance Jennifer (Diane) is unlike anyone I have ever known, she is the most beautiful girl in the world to me. I live to see her beautiful face and smiling eyes and that oh-so-sexy love-filled look that she gives only to me. I fall in love all over again every time I see those beautiful brown eyes and that special gaze. She is so special to me and I want to tell her something...

"Thank you ...
...Thank you my sweet for being so wonderful, so giving, so loving, and so understanding by putting up with me and my many complex issues for the last two years. You are truly one of a kind. I cannot remember what my life was like before I met you, and I cant imagine what like will be like when you're gone. I truly adore you and it is my last best hope that you can find your way back to me. I Love You baby doll."

FRANK HAS BEEN THE PERSON THAT HAS BEEN HERE FOR ME IN MY THOUGH TIMES,("THANKS FOR BEING UNDERSTANDING") I LOVE HIM THE WAY HE IS, NO CHANGES!!!!! WE MET ABOUT A YEAR AGO, MY DAUGHTERS IDEA, ITS A WEIRD STORY....THE END OF THE STORY IS THAT I FELL IN LOVE WITH HIM FOR BEING HIMSELF, FUNNY, CARING,UNDERSTANDING,WEIRD AND MY BEST FRIEND....LOVE HIM LOTS....

John can always put a smile on my face. I love him forever and always, my best friend and true love. We've been together for 14 years now. Happy Valentine's Day to all!